The AP story asks the right question: "Should Phelps be considered a role model?"
The story answers with the following:
It depends on what we want and expect our youthful role models to be: perfect, or flawed like the rest of us.
That’s an awful evasion, and it’s emblematic of our society’s attitude toward such things. We’d rather they just go away. But they won’t until we answer the question honestly.
First of all, nobody is expecting anyone to be perfect. What we are expecting is that they obey the law and that they don’t engage in obviously reckless behaviors. (Here I am not criticizing the use of marijuana as such but instead the foolishness of Phelps doing so when he knows a great proportion of the people who make him rich disapprove of it and think it wrong.) Second, it is entirely false to argue that it’s unfair or unreasonable to expect celebrities to comport themselves properly in response to an understanding that they serve as role models. After all, they are perfectly willing to accept the money and adulation, but when it comes to being criticized for their transgressions, suddenly the public is not to be allowed to affect them.
Such an attitude is sheer elitism, and a desire to have one’s dope and smoke it, too. A celebrity always has the choice of whether to be a celebrity, and that choice does not affect whether they would be able to do what brings them celebrity. To wit, they can do their acting, singing, swimming, or whatever, and give all of their money to the poor and resolutely refuse ever to do any interviews promoting themselves.
That may sound fantastic and even stupid, but it clarifies one point admirably: asking celebrities to serve as role models is neither unreasonable nor an imposition on their personal freedom. One should always have the choice of whether to accept all the trappings of success and fame or none of them, but being allowed to pick and choose should not be an option.
The use of the word "should" requires further support, of course. The key element to that is the fact that children and other impressionable people watch with intense interest the people they admire, and they are greatly affected by their actions.
Case in point: I happen to know a young girl who is positively infatuated with the Olympic diver Thomas Finchum. Rightly or wrongly, she sees him as a hero, and admires him for his accomplishments and his classy personal demeanor. For him then to reveal himself to be a self-indulgent slob or, even worse, a criminal, would break her heart. Multiply that example by tens of millions and you have the reality of contemporary life.
So, the question is whether it is right for celebrities to ignore the effects of their actions on such persons. Not whether they ought to have the power to do so; we know that that is an immutable fact of a modern communications system. The question is one of morals, plain and simple: Does it not matter if a person’s behavior harms another? Certainly there is harm in this hypothetical but all too common case. Yes, the young girl probably would eventually get over her disappointment, but the resulting dose of cynicism such a resolution would require is a real and serious consequence. And any parent would argue that it is indeed a harm
Such dismaying news stories do occur in our society daily, and they accumulate by the dozens over the course of weeks and months. Surely they must result in a great deal of confusion over what it takes to succeed in this world, and in particular where personal responsibility lies and how much we can expect of others. This is a critical question in the functioning of any society.
The reality is that even if we discard the notion of role models, people see what celebrities do, and young people are among those witnessing. And the fact is, young people do gain their understanding of how things work not only from lessons their parents and schools teach but also by seeing the consequences others’ actions bring. And when a superathlete or other celebrity is caught doing something the kids are constantly told is wrong, they are going to judge the situation by seeing the consequences toward the athlete.
In the current case and most others (in fact, basically all of those except prominent Christian church figures, Republican politicians, and overweight people), the consequences are as follows: One, the behavior clearly did not prevent this person from becoming a success, so obviously it has no personal negative consequences; and two, it had no important social or economic effect on the person other than a temporary burst of negative publicity and a potential decrease from $100 million annual income to $98 million annual income.
Thus all the moral work any child’s parents have done over the years is undermined by a dire reality: the daily announcements of celebrity transgressions. Hence it is evident that the achievement of personal success does indeed bring a real, moral responsibility with it, and that economic and social success cannot be seen as a pure gift of chance that is entirely divorced from any obligation to the public.
Clearly, then, celebrities—such as athletes, actors and actresses, musicians, politicians, well-known clergy, and business executives, should be held to at least the same standards as the rest of the public. Yet the fact is indisputable that they’re usually held to a lower standard. A construction worker or office manager can’t get away with one such incident and quick, obviously insincere and obfuscatory apology, whereas celebrities nearly always get multiple chances to fail and fail again at the simplest aspects of the moral life.
A basic understanding of economics and incentives brings up a serious question regarding the effect of this indulgent attitude on the celebrities themselves: Does the fact that the public and press give them multiple chances create a moral hazard? Instead of forcing celebrities to be more careful, it often appears that their fame ends up emboldening them. Thus our indulgence of celebrities’ transgressions may well be harming them as much as anybody, and probably a good deal more.
Thus it is clear that an indulgent social and media attitude toward the misbehaviors of celebrities harms both the public and the celebrities themselves.
As a believer in liberty, it is my opinion that this problem should be solved by the free choices of individuals. The real solution would seem to be for people in both the media and the general public (especially the latter) to express their disapproval of celebrities’ misadventures in no uncertain terms. If we are going to place a social responsibility upon celebrities, as we should, then we must all be willing to accept some consequences ourselves.
These are as follows: members of the media will have to place themselves in the uncomfortable position of holding other people morally accountable, and hence put their own lives in order lest they be charged with hypocrisy. And the public must be willing to forego some pleasures—movies, music, sporting events, and other happenings that feature people whose personal behavior sets a bad example for others.
Gresham’s Law observes that bad money drives out the good. The same is true in the social realm. Bad behavior drives out the good.
Until we’re all willing to set our own houses in order, we cannot expect others to do so—and both those others and the people who admire them will suffer the consequeces of our own moral cowardice.
That’s a perfectly stunning example, Jim. You’ve brilliantly outlined the task before us. Yes, it is going to be a very tough battle. And I know you’re a very tough guy.
Fair enough, Sam. I’d like to see celebrities who behave badly pay a steeper price — or at least as steep a price as ordinary folks. No special treatment. Let’s look at a case far worse than Phelps — Kobe Bryant.
He was arrested on rape charges in Colorado in 2003. Though the charges were dropped, Bryant was forced to admit that his victim did not think the encounter was consensual. That’s … um … the definition of rape.
Bryant lost all his major endorsements. His jersey plummeted down the NBA’s best-seller list (it was No. 1 before the incident). It looked like Bryant was untouchable to corporate America … for a while. Now he’s got it all back. It’s as if that whole rape charge had never happened.
If society is not willing to punish a sports star for more than about 20 minutes after a rape charge, I’m afraid this is going to be a very tough battle for the advocates of higher public morals to win. That realization probably colors my view on this issue.
Jim, I think you argue your case eloquently. If this phenomenon is taken as strictly limited to the present case, your arguments for sympathy for Michael Phelps are quite apposite indeed. I agree that one must feel rather sorry for him to be plunged into such an embarrassing mess, even though he did it to himself.
However, one person’s embarrassment versus the good of an entire society is what’s at stake here. We’re not talking about stoning people, after all. In addition, if other celebrities had been held to the same standards as ordinary people in the past two decades or so, surely Phelps would have been more sensible than to be caught driving drunk and using an illegal substance, wouldn’t he? Or if he did do so, we would be justified in putting all the responsibility on him, correct?
So, when do we start doing that and enabling celebrities to know that, like the rest of us, they must avoid lawbreaking, irresponsible behavior, and mistreatment of others (as in the recently revealed Christian Bale incident)? Or do we just punt because we haven’t the courage to start? And thereby let the slide accelerate?
Let’s preface this rebuttal to my friend, Mr. Karnick, with this statement: There are few public thinkers I admire more. And, also, with the fact that I don’t have children. So if readers want to dismiss my thoughts, I’m fine with that. I also think it would be best if everyone in the public eye comported themselves in the most proper and honorable way. And I greatly admire those who do.
Did Michael Phelps screw up? Yes he did. Should he be shoving his face into a hooka bowl? No. Yet …
I’ve long been inclined to subscribe to the Charles Barkley view of sports stars as role models. The Round Mound of Rebound famously said: “I don’t believe professional athletes should be role models. I believe parents should be role models…. It’s not like it was when I was growing up. My mom and my grandmother told me how it was going to be. If I didn’t like it, they said, ‘Don’t let the door hit you in the a– on your way out.’ Parents have to take better control.” In other words, the people actually involved in your life are your role models. Not some guy wiping the glass on NBA courts.
I think that’s very unfair in Phelps’ case. The guy’s 23 years old. Many of us have done not-so-smart things at parties when we were 23 — even if it didn’t involve illegal drugs. Phelps’ mental maturity is low. And as a pampered athlete, it’s even worse than the average 20-something. So, is it really fair to judge Phelps as if he was much older and more mature? Yes, there is the Tiger Woods exception. But he’s a unique individual.
My wife loved Andy Gibb as a pre-teen. She had no idea that he was a hopeless coke addict — but no one recorded that fact for worldwide public consumption, at least not in a way kids could consume. It is obviously a feature of today’s cell phone and blog culture that such personal failings of the famous cannot be hidden anymore. Is it fair to hold Phelps up to a higher standard simply because technology, not genuinely “public” activity, makes these things more visible? I think you hint to this dynamic in your post, Sam, but I don’t think you give it enough berth.
Doing what you suggest in that last sentence would make Phelps more famous, or at least as famous. The world loves the “selfless” celebrity who is also a mysterious “recluse” (See: Jolie, Angelina). Putting that aside … Michael Phelps has been a supremely talented swimmer since he was a wee child. He was better than all the 8-year-olds in the pool with him. Better than all the 10-year-olds. Better than all the 14-year-olds. In a sense, he did not choose to be a great swimmer. He was born a great swimmer — and subsequently worked hard to be the greatest ever. I think it’s a bit much to expect Phelps to start thinking about being a role model as a young teen — when, I suppose, it was obvious that he was headed to being an Olympian — and decide to live the always straight and narrow life from then on. Michael Phelps, for all his talents, is Michael Phelps first and always. If Michael Phelps is also a pot head (and a drinker, he does have a DUI on his record), well … that’s who he is as a person. And he’s free to be that person, regardless of what others may think about it.
Phelps doesn’t get to pick and choose all the trappings regardless of behavior — which the cancellation of some of his endorsement deals and not a little bit of opprobrium from the public and MSM indicates.
I don’t think Phelps was “ignoring” the effects of his behavior. I think he just wanted to smoke a bowl — at a small, private party in South Carolina far, far away (he had reason to trust) from the limelight.
This is the portion of the post where I heartily agree with you. This is a real dilemma. “But Michael Phelps smokes weed, and he’s the greatest swimmer of all time! So why can’t I?” Yes. What do you say to a child? How about, “You’re not Michael Phelps. And I don’t approve, no matter how great you think he is.” Perhaps that’s a very lame thing for a non-parent to say. Again, I fall back on the Barkley rule. And, Phelps’ actions are having consequences — not just financially, but culturally, on this blog and in the minds of many of his fans and admirers.
Again, I think Phelps’ talent is — in many measures — a pure gift of chance. If I was one of the greatest writers who ever lived, and it got out that I was a womanizing drunk who ignored his family and traumatized his children, which put them on the path of lives of insecurity and drug-addled misery … I’d be named Ernest Hemingway. But that was a different time …
Last I heard, Phelps was in danger of having charges filed. And not to put to fine a point on it … but the cops didn’t raid that party. Some bloke with a camera snapped a picture of the most famous person he’ll ever see. And … presto! Phelps is in more danger of legal jeopardy than anyone else who took hits off that same bong that night. Who’s being held to the unfair standard here?
I’ve known esteemed journalists who’ve been busted for DUI and haven’t lost a day’s pay, nor their prestigious beats.
I’m not saying that Michael Phelps made the right choices here. Obviously, he didn’t. I just don’t think it is healthy for society to idolize celebrity, and I actually embrace this incident as an example why it’s right not to, rather than a reason to argue that celebrities should act better than they do. They just won’t.
(This response is cross-posted as an entry at Infinite Monkeys blog).